Step-by-step guide
How to Make a Wedding Website: A Step-by-Step Guide
Ten practical steps from a blank page to a site your guests can rely on, with a launch checklist and three example setups.
By the Loverisse team
· 6 min read
Charlotte & Alexander
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A wedding website does one job very well: it gives every guest the same, current answer to the questions they would otherwise send you one by one. When does it start? Where do I park? Can I bring the children? Have I replied?
You don't need design or coding experience to make one. You need your details in one place, a platform that suits your wedding, and an hour or two of careful writing and testing. This guide walks through the whole process in order, then ends with a launch checklist you can copy.
Step 1: Decide what your website needs to do
Before you look at designs, decide which jobs the site has. That decides which platform features matter and how much you need to write.
| Your wedding | The site must | Can usually wait |
|---|---|---|
| Local, one day, mostly nearby guests | Date, times, venue, RSVP | Travel and accommodation pages |
| Guests travelling, or a weekend of events | Schedule for each day, travel, accommodation, RSVP | A long story section |
| Two languages or two families | Key details in both languages, clear contacts | Decorative extras |
| Small and informal | Date, place, a way to reply | Almost everything else |
If you only need to share a date and an address, a single page is enough. If guests reply online, the RSVP form becomes the most important part of the site, and it is worth choosing a platform for it.
Step 2: Gather the details first
Writing is much faster when the facts are settled. Collect these before you open any website builder:
- Both names, exactly as you want them shown
- The date, and the start time of each part of the day
- Venue names and full addresses, plus parking or transport notes
- Your reply-by date (see step 7)
- Who guests should contact with questions
- Dress code, if you have one
- Accommodation, gifts and children, if they apply to your wedding
Anything still undecided can go on the site later. Put "details to follow" rather than a guess, because guests remember the first version they read.
Step 3: Choose a platform
Most couples use a wedding website builder rather than a general one, because the wedding features (RSVP, guest list, a countdown) are already there. When you compare options, check:
- RSVP: can guests reply on the site, and can you see and export every answer?
- Phones: most guests will open the site on a phone, often from a QR code. Try a template on yours.
- Privacy: can you keep the site out of search engines, and does the platform list couples in a public search?
- The address: what will the web address look like, and can it change after you print it?
- Cost: what is free, what is paid, and is any payment a one-off or a subscription?
Our guide to free wedding websites goes through each of these in detail.
Step 4: Choose the web address carefully
The address ends up on save-the-dates, invitations and QR codes, so treat it as final once anything is printed. A good address is:
- short and easy to say aloud (names, not a date in digits)
- free of characters that are easy to mistype, such as accents or double letters
- checked by typing it on a phone from the printed proof
A QR code stores the address itself. If the address changes after printing, every printed code points to the wrong place.
Step 5: Pick a design that matches the day
Start from the feel of the wedding: the venue, the season, the formality. If you have printed stationery, match its colours and type so the site feels like part of the same suite. Then check legibility on a phone. Elegant script fonts work for names, but body text should be a clear serif or sans-serif at a comfortable size.
For worked examples, see wedding website examples and design ideas.
- CoverNames, date, place
- ScheduleTimes and places, as a list
- VenueAddress, map link, parking, access
- Travel & stayOnly if guests travel
- DetailsDress code, gifts, children
- QuestionsShort answers to real questions
- RSVPReply-by date and the form
Step 6: Write the sections
Write in the order guests need things: the essentials first, the extras later. A typical order is:
- Your names, the date and the place
- Schedule
- Venue and directions
- Travel and accommodation, if guests travel
- Dress code, gifts and other details
- Questions and answers
- RSVP
Keep each section short and specific. "The ceremony starts at 3 pm; please arrive by 2:40" is more useful than "Join us in the afternoon". Our list of what to include on your wedding website has wording you can adapt for every section.
Step 7: Set up RSVPs
Decide what you need to know from each guest, and nothing more: whether each person is coming, their name, and dietary requirements if you are serving food. Then set a reply-by date that leaves time to chase late replies before your caterer needs final numbers. Etiquette guidance varies: the Emily Post Institute suggests a reply-by date usually two to three weeks before the wedding.
Our guide to wedding RSVP websites covers questions, deadlines and follow-up in detail.
Step 8: Preview privately and test on real phones
Before anyone else sees the site:
- Read every section on a phone, not just a laptop.
- Check every time, date and address against your confirmations.
- Tap every link and button, including map links.
- Submit a test reply, then make sure you know how to remove it, or use a preview mode if your platform has one.
- Ask one person who doesn't know the plans, ideally an older relative, to find the start time and the RSVP. Watch where they hesitate.
Step 9: Publish and share
Publish once the essentials are correct; you can keep improving the rest. Then:
- Put the address on your save-the-dates or invitations.
- If you print a QR code, print a proof first and scan it with several phones, at the size you will use.
- Send the link to guests who receive digital invitations, with a one-line note on what they'll find there.
Step 10: Keep it current
A wedding website is only useful if guests can trust it. When something changes, update the site the same day, and tell guests directly if the change affects their plans (a new start time, a venue change). After the wedding, many couples add a thank-you note and a link to photos.
Wedding website launch checklist
Copy this list and tick it off before you share the address:
- Names, date and place are correct and spelled consistently
- Every start time is checked against the venue's confirmation
- Each venue has a full address and a working map link
- Parking, transport and accessibility notes are included
- The reply-by date is on the site and on the invitation
- A test reply worked, and it has been removed
- The site reads well on at least two different phones
- Someone unfamiliar with the plans found the key details in under a minute
- The web address is final, and the printed QR proof scans
- You know how to update the site quickly if plans change
Three example setups
These are illustrative examples to show how the steps change with the wedding.
A local Saturday wedding, 80 guests. One page: names and date, a three-line schedule, the venue with parking notes, a short Q&A (children, dress code) and the RSVP. Reply-by date three weeks before the wedding.
A weekend wedding with travelling guests. Separate sections for Friday drinks, the Saturday wedding and Sunday brunch, each with its own time and place. Travel and accommodation near the top, with booking deadlines. RSVP asks for attendance and dietary needs, with a reply-by date about a month ahead because rooms have deadlines too.
A bilingual family wedding. Essentials in both languages in the same section, rather than two separate sites that can drift apart. One contact person per family for questions, and the RSVP in the language most guests read.
How Loverisse approaches it
Loverisse is launching soon. It is built around the steps above: you compose your website from sections, preview the draft privately and publish when you're ready, and guests open a digital envelope before they reach your site. Every guest uses the same link and QR code, and when guests reply with their names, clear matches update your guest list while anything uncertain waits for your review.
Sources
- The Emily Post Institute, How to word a wedding response card. Reviewed 2 November 2026.